Books & Movies

Movie Day!

I recently flew back to the States for the upcoming weddings of not one, but two, sisters! I originally thought I would want to sleep on the flight, but when I thought about it, it made more sense to stay awake so I could actually sleep at night once I got to my parents’ house. Thankfully, the Delta flight I took offered a LOT of movie options. There were a lot I wanted to watch, but with less than 9 hours, I had to narrow it down to four of them.

1. The Odd Life of Timothy Green
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It was cute. “The Odd Life of Timothy Green” was a sweet story about an infertile couple who are basically told that they will not conceive a child. After receiving the devastating news, the husband, Jim, convinces his wife to help him make a list of various qualities their child would have had. They enjoy their evening coming up with their “perfect” child, then put the pieces of paper in a box, and bury it in the garden. Out of this comes a child. From the garden. Literally. After that it’s the story of this strange child that has come into their lives and changes them. Again, very sweet. I teared up at the end (not what you want on a cramped flight). I’m glad I saw it, but it’s obviously unrealistic and sweet at best.

2. Revolutionary Road
revolutionary-road-movie-posterI had forgotten that I had wanted to see this! It’s from a few years ago, but I was excited to finally watch it. It’s the story of a 1950’s couple, April & Frank, who get pulled into the normal American Dream life when they marry and get pregnant. While they are considered a perfect couple, and then a perfect family, both April & Frank yearn for a more exciting life. They both had dreams for more, but settled into the typical life only to discover boredom and desperation. While the couple has two children, the children are rarely seen and the focus is much more on April & Frank. April suggests a plan that involves Frank quitting his job, the family moving to Paris, and April working a secretarial job to support the family while Frank finds what he is passionate about in life. They begin to make plans for their big move, shocking all of their friends and co-workers. Things get complicated when Frank if offered a promotion and April discovers she is pregnant again. The whole film is a bit depressing with all of the yearning for more and general unhappiness with everyday life. But Kate Winslet & Leonaro DiCaprio are excellent in their character roles, and you can relate to both of their wants and needs. I highly recommend it if you’re in the mood for a serious film.

3. Parental Guidance
parental_guidance_posterI needed a comedy after the drama, so this was the one I picked. What can I say, I like Billy Crystal & Bette Midler. 🙂 It was a fairly typical comedy but easy to relate to. It’s the story of a set of grandparents being asked to come babysit for their three grandkids, who are parented by your current day helicopter A-type parents. I had to laugh when Marisa Tomei’s character suggested they say, “Use your words,” because I say that ALL the time! You can’t help but roll your eyes at all of the “good parent” phrases of the day. And shake your head at the lack of…well, any negativity. I mean, they play baseball with limitless outs and a tie at the end of every game. It’s a good movie, and a nice family ending.

4. Stoker
MV5BMjI3MTM5ODI5MV5BMl5BanBnXkFtZTcwMjE1Mzc4OA@@._V1._SX510_SY756_After contemplating several thrillers, I settled on “Stoker.” I knew I couldn’t handle any of the “Paranormal Activity” films, mostly because I don’t want to shriek in the middle of a crowded plane. Anyway, I was pretty pleased with my choice. I always enjoy a good psychological thriller. But be warned: it’s weird. If you enjoy cinematic symbolism, general creepiness, and a highly dysfunctional family, this is the movie for you. The acting is superb. The big name is Nicole Kidman, but you may also recognize Mia Wasikowska from Tim Burton’s “Alice in Wonderland.” Wasikowska plays India Stoker, whose father dies in an accident on her 18th birthday. Kidman is her cold and distant mother, Evie, who has a strained relationship with her daughter. You can see from an early point that India connected primarily with her father, especially when you see that she is a quiet, sullen social outcast at her school. At her father’s funeral, mysterious Uncle Charlie shows up, a man she had no knowledge of until that point. While Charlie is charming and nicely dressed, you feel a general wariness right off the bat. And it only grows when you see him trying to seduce Evie (Kidman) and possibly India as well. The family secrets and tension within the house build up the suspense, but it’s surprise after surprise in this film. Every time you think you’ve connected to a character, they seem to change. Apparently, this is mostly a coming-of-age film… but it will be the strangest one you’ve ever seen.

Hope you enjoyed my “movie reviews”… I’m hoping for this many movie options on my return flight as well! 🙂

 

Daily living

Where Has 2013 Gone?!

Wow, I can’t believe we’re almost through July already. Again, I’ve gotten way behind on my blog, which just seems to keep happening. When I read another person’s blog, I think, I really wish I had more time to keep up on my own blog! I’m hoping to try to organize my time a little better to try to do everything I want to do, so we’ll see how that goes!

Updates on life:

Work
I moved to a new pre-toddler room in March. I was sad to leave my other classroom, but it’s right next door, so I still see my “old” kids everyday. A lot of them have moved though, either to the other toddler classroom or back to the States. My new classroom is a younger group: our oldest kids are about 20 months and are youngest are 12 months old. It was initially hard to go back to kids who are still pretty unsteady on their feet and say few if any words, but I’m enjoying it now. Here are a few photos of “my kids”:

Getting messy with art
Getting messy with art
Cooling off with water play
Cooling off with water play
Our two newest little ones
Our two newest little ones

There is never a dull day at my job, and I love the kids I get to work with.

Travel
We haven’t really done much traveling lately. Our last trip was with Andrew’s parents to Wales in May. We kept busy and saw a lot of places around Cardiff. It was a really fun trip, and Andrew and I would love to get back to Wales soon!

The four of us at Puzzlewood
The four of us at Puzzlewood

My next trip will be back to the States for the weddings of my two middle sisters. They are only 5 weeks apart, so I’ll be there for nearly 7 weeks! Unfortunately, Andrew is not able to take that much time off from work, so I’ll be going alone. I’m excited to see my family and friends, but I’ll definitely be missing my hubby! 😦

Daily Life
I’m WAY behind on posting new recipes on here, so I will be trying to get caught up a little at a time. I’ll probably be able to do some of that while I’m back in the States with all of my free time, so look forward to that!

While I’ve had few crochet orders with the warmer weather, I’ve had plenty of projects to keep me busy: baby shower gifts, new patterns, and my temperature scarves. I’m starting to get more orders again, so personal projects will probably have to go on the back burner pretty soon.

I took a break from running last fall when I started working, and I really haven’t gotten back to it. 😦 I’m hoping to get myself on some sort of schedule when the weather cools off, since we’re experiencing a heat wave right now. We’ll see how that goes… I often come home from work pretty drained of energy, so my motivation to run is pretty low.

Hope you all are staying cool and enjoying your summer!

 

 

 

 

 

Daily living

TGIF… and a 3-Day Weekend

I have been working at one of the CDCs on our base for 5 months now. Those first few weeks were really tough — I didn’t know the kids, I didn’t know my co-workers, my schedule changed frequently, and I was not used to coming home exhausted every day. I’ve been in the same pre-toddler (children 12-24 months) classroom now since the end of October. Since then, we’ve moved to a different classroom, gotten a new lead teacher, and found out we will be turning into a toddler classroom. Lots of changes! But it’s been nice being in one classroom and getting to know the kids and the families.

Our kids are now ranging in age from 18 months to 24 months, and it’s been fun seeing how they grow and change. Going along with that are plenty of side issues though! With growing independence come plenty of toddler scuffles. We deal with pushing, hitting, kicking, yelling, crying, and, of course, 2527282a-d341-45ca-8538-34ed90359514biting. I think biting was our biggest issue a couple of months ago. The ones being bit became the biters, the biters became the ones being bit… what a fun cycle! And parents don’t like being told that their child is on either side of the biting. We still deal with the occasional bite here and there, but we’ve gotten a lot quicker at preventing them from happening.

With our oldest kids approaching their 2nd birthdays, the new exciting thing was potty training! We have pht_topic_pottytrainingtwo little girls pretty much fully potty-trained, and our oldest little guy is working hard at it. With all the excitement surrounding the only potty in our room, our younger kids have become very interested in the potty, flushing the potty, and the toilet paper. We now have about half of our classroom potty-trained, potty-training, or getting acquainted with the whole process. I see more bodily eliminations in one day than I would care to see in a lifetime.

With our pre-toddlers becoming toddlers, we’ve been seeing our kids get a lot more coordinated, independent, and defiant. It’s getting a lot harder to “mak41585267913a00c2d6a0c9edf38076e5e” our kids do things. If they don’t want to eat, we can’t force them. If they don’t want to go potty, we can’t force them. I’m sure realizing you have control over your own body makes you very proud… and very smug when you find out you have power. And those power struggles can be SO FRUSTRATING! I am constantly reminding myself that I can outlast any toddler’s willpower, and that I don’t have to react to anything they say or do. But it’s not easy!

Living in England throws one more obstacle at us: rain and cold. Do you know how frustrating it is when the sun decides to only come out at naptime?images Or when the majority of the kids show up without hats or gloves? So we haven’t gotten to take our kids outside to play nearly as often as we did in the fall, when we would bring them outside twice a day for a good half hour at least. I think our kids are suffering from a bit of cabin fever, and it’s driving us all a little nutty!

This past week seemed REALLY long. It was mostly just the normal everyday ups and downs of working with toddlers, but I’ve also been fighting another cold, so I’ve been sleep-deprived and cranky. Maybe knowing we had a 3-day weekend coming up made the week seem longer too. I couldn’t wait to sleep in, and I have no plans to get out of my pajamas today. 🙂 I’m hoping to get this bug out of my system and go back to work refreshed on Tuesday, because my job is a lot of fun when I’m healthy and well-rested. Thank goodness for long weekends!