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Baby #2: Week 14

Hello, 2nd trimester! As much as I thought the first trimester dragged on and on, it feels weird to already be a third of the way done. I’m hoping this trimester really is the best — I’m ready to be feeling better.

I’ve come to the conclusion that eating in the first trimester is like eating like a toddler. I basically only want carbs, cheese, and fruit. I pretty much snack all day instead of eating meals. I want to eat things like chips and ice cream, and, because I’m an adult, I do, haha. It’s just a huge switch from what I was eating before the nausea and food aversion set in.

How far along: 14 weeks on 28 Nov 2017
Approximate size of Baby: the size of a lemon or a house mouse
Gender: I have no idea
Weight gain: none (-5 lbs)
Symptoms: Nausea, back pain, vomiting, fatigue, low appetite, burping
  • The nausea is bad one day then much better the next. Then bad again, then better…
  • Minor and occasional back pain… same as I’ve been having.
  • Okay, scratch everything I said about being better about avoiding getting sick this time around. My new thought is that if your body wants to throw up, you’re just going to throw up. I had a day where I had on and off nausea ALL day, and when I finally threw up around midnight, I felt SO much better.
  • I still get extra sleep when I can, but I feel like maybe the fatigue is lifting.
  • I don’t think I’m having as much food aversion, but my appetite is low. I’ll eat a little, then need a break to digest or something. One night I had half my bowl of spaghetti, cleaned up the kitchen and put Gerrit to bed, then went back and finished my spaghetti.
  • I forgot to mention this again… the burping! At least the last half of my first trimester, I had a lot of burping, especially when I’m feeling nauseated.
Maternity clothes: Slowly pulling them out. I’m about done with any shorts/jeans that zip and button. Elastic is my friend. If it’s too hot for leggings, I find elastic waist shorts, maternity shorts without the full panel, or a skirt. I can still wear most of my regular tops though.
Stretch marks: no new ones
Belly button in or out: in
Sleep: Good! Still sleeping very soundly. Sometimes I have a hard time falling back to sleep if I have to get up with Gerrit though. 
Best moment this week: Thanksgiving! It was a little stressful getting everything made, but the actual meal and company was great. I LOVE hosting things like this!
Miss anything: My patience. I asked Andrew if I seemed moody, and he said, “No, you just act like you don’t feel good.” But I have been more snappy with Gerrit, and I feel really bad about that. I usually pride myself on my patience, but it’s been really low lately. Gerrit has been showing an interest in potty training, and I really need patience for that!
Movement: Not yet… I don’t think.
Cravings: chips and guacamole
Looking forward to: Our 2nd OB appointment… FINALLY. My last one was supposed to be at 12 weeks. It got rescheduled for 11 weeks, and then it got canceled and rescheduled for next Monday. I hate having such a big gap between appointments, even if it was the first trimester.
One more with the big brother-to-be:
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Baby #2: Week 13

Yay, we’re almost done with the first trimester! It has dragged on. Probably because I just felt icky all the time, it doesn’t seem like anything is happening, and I was trying so hard to keep my mouth shut about being pregnant!

How far along: 13 weeks on 21 Nov 2017
Approximate size of Baby: the size of a tangerine or a matchbox car
Gender: no idea
Weight gain: none (-6 lbs)
Symptoms: Nausea, back pain, fatigue, food aversion, headaches, cramping
  • The nausea comes and goes, but I still find myself gagging sporadically, mostly around dinnertime.
  • Minor and occasional back pain… same as I’ve been having. I think one or two days it felt a little worse, but not too bad.
  • Andrew was on night week, so he was getting up with Gerrit in the morning, which was amazing. I still found myself nodding off some afternoons though.
  • Still feeling like I never know what I actually want to eat. I found out I can eat salad again… as long as I use ranch dressing.
  • I’ve been getting headaches a lot. My tolerance for coffee keeps going down, so I thought maybe it was caffeine withdrawal. Also wondering if I’m just not drinking enough water during the day.
  • One or two days I had some minor cramping. Resting and drinking water makes it go away though… I really need to up my water intake!
Maternity clothes: No, but I’m definitely in that in-between phase now. I have one pair of jeans that still fits for the most part. I wear leggings as often as I can. I tried the hair-tie-on-the-jeans trick, and I felt like I might as well just pull out the maternity jeans!
Stretch marks: no new ones
Belly button in or out: in
Sleep: I sleep like a rock. The only time I get up to use the bathroom is if Gerrit wakes me. I’ve been tired in the afternoons. Sometimes I doze off for a minute here and there. 
Best moment this week: What did we even do this week??
Miss anything: Not being sick-feeling in the evenings
Movement: not yet
Cravings: pasta and peppermint ice cream (separately, of course)
Looking forward to: Thanksgiving! We’re hosting a small dinner with friends potluck style, and I’m really looking forward to tons of carbs and good company!
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Baby #2: Week 12

Well, week 12 was not as great as I thought it would be. I feel like the symptoms that were subsiding in week 11 just popped right back up in week 12. How unfair!

How far along: 12 weeks on 14 Nov 2017
Approximate size of Baby: the size of a lime or a toy soldier
Gender: I still am leaning toward boy
Weight gain: none (-6 lbs)
Symptoms: Nausea, back pain, vomiting, fatigue, food aversion
  • Well, the nausea was easing up, but I feel like as my cold symptoms lessened, the nausea picked back up again.
  • Minor and occasional back pain… same as I’ve been having.
  • So apparently I got a little too smug about not getting sick at all this pregnancy… the first day of week 12 I ended up throwing up in the bathroom before dinner. I had tried eating some banana to calm my stomach, but it didn’t work this time. I thought for sure if I had made it this far into pregnancy without getting sick, I was good to go. And then the universe laughed at me.
  • I’ve been pretty tired, and I still don’t know if it’s this persistent cold bug or pregnancy. Bad mom confession: I shamelessly got Gerrit some cereal, put a movie on, and went back to bed for an hour more than once this week.
  • Food and I continue to not really care for each other. It’s frustrating to like something one week and be grossed out by it the next week. I feel like there’s so much food going to waste because the things I tolerate keep changing.
Maternity clothes: No, although the weather cooled down enough that I’ve been living in leggings. So comfy. Please, just stay cool, Texas.
Stretch marks: no new ones
Belly button in or out: in
Sleep: Fantastic! Gerrit has been sleeping through the night (WHAT?!) about 80% of the time, and I’m loving it. Without any wake-ups, he’s sleeping fewer hours though, so I need to start getting used to earlier mornings. Which means no more crocheting into the wee hours. 😦 
Best moment this week: Family photos! You wouldn’t believe how hard it was to schedule photos this year! Andrew’s cross country trip kept getting moved around to different weekends, so our family photos got pushed a bit later than I was hoping. I’m so excited to see how they turned out, especially because our big announcement was part of the photo shoot!
Miss anything: Nothing really. Still missing my ability to just eat. I don’t mind the decrease in appetite, I just wish more foods sounded good to eat.
Movement: not yet
Cravings: Wheat Thins, string cheese, anything pasta
Looking forward to: Thanksgiving! We haven’t really made plans, but I’m looking forward to having Andrew home for a long weekend. We’re all happier when we’re all home together.